June 9th, 2008

I belong to a group of submissive women and tonight one asked what took away coffee smell from cum. * blank stare*

I have to admit that I have never ever heard of cum smelling of coffee. Mike drinks gallons of the stuff and rarely counteracts it with water or other beverages. Saying that though if your thinking of watersports do NOT eat asparagus!

Going back to coffee smelling cum they say to eat pinapple. Its sweet tasting and apparently it works. If you try it let me know.

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May 30th, 2008

This story is amazing. I have suffered 2 ectopic pregnancys 9 months apart from each other. My second one was misdiagnosed on my wedding day as a miscarriage. A week later I was rushed for emergency surgery with only 30 minutes left to live. I wish this new mother a wonderful life with her miracle baby.

Read the full story here

A woman in Australia has given birth to a healthy baby girl after a rare full-term ectopic pregnancy.

Against all odds, baby Durga survived despite developing in her mother’s ovary instead of her uterus.

Her mother Meera Thangarajah, 34, had shown no signs of abnormality and doctors only realised when they performed a Caesarean section.

Most ectopic pregnancies end in miscarriage or are terminated early because of the risk to the mother.

Just 1-2% of all pregnancies are ectopic, and in 95% of those cases the egg is fertilised in the fallopian tubes on its way to the uterus.

In 0.5% of cases, including this one, the baby grows inside the ovary itself.

Pre-natal scan

Mrs Thangarajah gave birth on Thursday at the Darwin Private Hospital in Australia’s Northern Territory.

General manager Robyn Cahill told the Associated Press news agency that mother and baby were both doing well.

Normally, a woman with an ectopic pregnancy would present with severe pain and bleeding in the first few weeks after conception.

But Ms Cahill said Mrs Thangarajah had experienced no symptoms, and the abnormality did not show up on a pre-natal scan.

She said only 1 in 40,000 fertilisations implant in the ovary, and it was unheard of for one of those foetuses grow to full term. But despite those statistics, Durga - meaning Goddess - was born at 38 weeks weighing 6lb 3oz (2.8 kg).

“We’re calling it a miracle,” Ms Cahill said.

Risk of bleeding

The Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists said the odds of survival in such a pregnancy were “no more than one in a million”.

Spokeswoman Dr Maggie Blott said: “One that goes to produce a live healthy baby is very unusual.

“There is a great risk in such a pregnancy of bleeding.

“And had it been picked up at six to eight weeks, it would have been removed because of the risk to the mother.

“This type of pregnancy is very rare indeed.”

Obstetrician Dr Andrew Miller, who delivered Durga, told AFP news agency that he had not realised there was a problem until he saw the ovary stretched almost to breaking point.

“And you can’t believe that the baby, just by normal movement, wouldn’t have caused the sac [inside the ovary] to rupture,” he said.

“It was so paper thin you could see the baby’s hair.”

The baby’s father, Ravi, told local television that doctors had told him: “You’re one of the luckiest men in the world at the moment.”

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May 29th, 2008

If you don’t do anything else today, go to Baldys blog, read and sign the petition.. please.

This guy is a complete inspiration and I have been following his cause daily. You will smile, laugh, cry cringe and go through every emotion possible. His fight is now almost world wide, touching many hearts along the way. He doesnt have long to live and his vision of educating people about marrow donation is awe inspiring. He is just 26. He is possibly the only person in the world to fight two types of leukaemia at the same time. If ever you saw a hero, he is one.

Words are simply not enough to tell you what a couragious guy he is. Go there now please and sign the petition, back the cause and salute a truely remarkable young man.

Baldy’s Blog

The Petition

PETITION FOR BETTER AWARENESS ABOUT BONE MARROW DONATION
ADRIAN Sudbury is a 26-year-old journalist who has battled two forms of leukaemia for the past 18 months. His treatment included a bone marrow transplant. Sadly for him, it failed and he has been given weeks to live. There are 7,000 people out there waiting for a transplant right now. Adrian is using his final weeks to raise awareness of the need for more people to register as bone marrow donors. He wants better education in schools, colleges and other education institutions about how to become a donor and why it is important. This system is in place in Germany – a country with one of the fullest donor registers. Adrian wants the Government to require educational institutions to commit to including these issues in either the curriculum or pastoral care programme. If you agree, please sign your name and help support a brave man in his campaign.

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May 26th, 2008

sexy awardONE OF YOUR POSTS RECEIVED THE SEXY POST FAVORITES AWARD. TO FIND OUT WHAT POST CHECK THE LIST BELOW. TO SHOW OFF YOUR BADGE PLEASE READ AND FOLLOW THE STEPS BELOW! THESE AWARDS ARE ONLY FAIR AND USEFUL IF THE STEPS ARE CONTINUOUSLY FOLLOWED WITHOUT ANY ALTERCATION!

If you would like to pass an award to a sexy blogger, feel free to do so. Just make sure to keep the rules exactly as they are, links and all!

Rules:
Step 1 Find 3 of your favorite posts done by other adult bloggers
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Step 3 Copy the code for the rules (a cut and paste copy of rules can always be found by clicking this link)
Step 4 Paste the code for the rules in your “Sexy Post Awards” blog posting
Step 5 Copy the Current list of Sexy Post Awards (you may have to view the source of the post) and add your favorite picks to the bottom of the list.
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Step 7 Post your blog
Step 8 Leave a comment on the most recent post of the bloggers whose post you awarded saying: One of your posts has just been awarded the sexy post favorites award. To find out what post visit my Sexy Post Awards (don’t forget to include a link to your posting so they can read the rules and repost the list)

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a bit of content by Ruth Lawrence’s Journal
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Beating by Diary of a Kinky Librarian

My Submissive Code of Ethics by BDSM is Love
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May 25th, 2008

Taken from Red Pepper

Penny, from the campaigning group Backlash, says banning so called ’extreme porn’ is an insult to female sexuality

Some women like rough, kinky sex. They like doing it, thinking about it and looking at pictures of it.

Now, as controversial revelations go, the above ought to be up there with ‘some women like fish and chips.’ Unfortunately, it isn’t. To the British government, among others, the idea of women having varied sexual tastes rather than being an undifferentiated mass of sexual victims seems so inconceivable that they are enshrining their denial in law.

I’m referring to Section 6 of the Criminal Justice and Immigration Bill 2007. The proposals have a long history, but, in summary, unless there are substantial amendments, the resulting law will punish the possession of ‘extreme pornographic imagery’ with up to three years in jail and entry on the Sex Offenders Register. This, we are told, is a move to ‘protect’ women and children (yes, children are mentioned over 30 times in the government’s original proposal, in spite of their total irrelevance to the question of adult pornography).

The whole bill, and every piece of official documentation that I have seen in support of it, is founded on the assumption that in every instance of ‘extreme’ or ‘violent’ porn – and implicitly, in every instance of sex – there is a male aggressor and a female victim. The sole piece of research commissioned by the government to support its proposal was so inadequate that 40 academics wrote to them in urgent protest, condemning the evidence as ‘extremely poor.’

What is extreme porn?
So, what is ‘extreme porn anyway’? Well, the short answer appears to be, ‘anything the investigating authorities decide it is.’ The term ‘extreme porn’ itself has been carefully chosen by the architects of the bill to create maximum shock (and minimum intelligent reflection) in hearers. But the small print tells a different story. It states that the definition of an ‘extreme image’ is a pornographic image of ‘an act which threatens or appears to threaten a person’s life’ or ‘which results in or appears to result (or be likely to result) in serious injury to a person’s anus, breasts or genitals’. (There are two further clauses about interference with an animal and interference with a corpse, but they are outside the scope of this article).

Right… so what is ‘life-threatening’ or ‘serious’? And what do ‘appears to’ and ‘likely’ mean? Is fisting imagery going to be banned because incompetent fisting can cause tissue damage? If you take a picture of the office lads doing naked skydiving for charity, do you become an ‘extreme pornographer’ based on whether or not you get the parachute in the picture?

Too many grey areas
The Criminal Justice Bill simply ignores these questions. Nobody will know what is and isn’t illegal to possess, until they are up in court defending themselves against accusations of being a sex offender. This is all the worse because there has been virtually no publicity about the forthcoming law. The media has almost wholly accepted the government’s assumption that to disagree with a ban on something as nasty-sounding as ‘extreme porn’ is a moral impossibility,

But that is not actually the case. In 2005, Backlash was set up to coordinate groups and individuals opposed to the law. Many active members are women who fiercely object to the suppression of images of adult sexuality in the name of ‘protecting’ us. We have collected an archive of articles by women from the International Union of Sex Workers to housewives with children, all protesting the proposed law. Some of our supporters practise BDSM (bondage, domination, sadomasochism) in their own lives; some are simply opposed to censorship; all condemn the lie that there is a such a thing as ‘extreme porn’ that can be separated from the rest of human life and the people involved labelled as evil so that everyone else gets to feel nice.

The only possible use for that self-congratulatory impulse is as a distraction from real issues, such as trafficking and the need for regulation in the porn industry. Nobody doubts that a very small minority of porn is made under coercive conditions – but this porn is just as likely to be ‘mainstream’ as ‘extreme’, and a witch-hunt against ‘extreme’ material that is produced by consenting adults for consenting adults can only draw police resources away from the investigation of real crimes.

Many of the police responses to the government’s original consultation document raised grave concerns about the ability of computer forensic units to cope with the workload that such a ban would create. Potentially, a situation in which the creation of real child porn, by abusers who take care to hide their tracks, goes unnoticed and unpunished because the police are swamped trying to arrest every Tom, Dick and Harriet (because yes, Harriet exists) with a credit card subscription to kink.com.

The majority of individual responses to the original consultation document responded with a clear ‘no’ to the question of whether a law was needed at all. Yet the architects of the proposal blundered on. One of the MPs behind the bill, Martin Salter, said during the Commons debate, ‘If people want to do weird things to each other they still can, but I say, “Don’t put it on the internet.”’

In other words: we probably won’t send the police after you– as long as you keep your head down and are afraid and ashamed of your sexuality.

Coming from a government that prides itself on its support of gay rights and gender equality, this is inexcusable. And it is going largely unremarked, in part because there has been so little publicity and in part because to object is to risk being branded as an apologist for rape, if not a sex offender yourself. But if this piece of moralistic nonsense becomes law, which of our freedoms will be rebranded as a crime and banned next?

More information: Backlash

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